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Grindr Hacked: How Safe Are We Online?

So Grindr got hacked the other week. So much of our life today happens online, on our phones and computers. Some of us have a lot of naked pics of ourselves out there. How safe is it?

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Events

Maumahara ki Carmen Rupe (Carmen Rupe Memorial Service)

Where: St Matthews in the city

When: February 11th 2012

New Zealanders will have the opportunity to pay tribute to the ‘Mother of Equality’ and New Zealand icon, entrepreneur, and inspiration, Carmen Rupe, (Ngati Maniapoto) at a maumahara (memorial service) in Auckland

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Ask a Sexpert

Q. I am 16 years old, and I am gay. I only seem to be attracted to straight guys though, because I love their masculinity and the way they act. I was wondering, are there any gay guys that act this way (very masculine and manly) because that's all I seem to be attracted to. Do these types of guys exist?

A.

Yes, these types of guys definitely do exist. There are many types of guys who are gay and some of them fit into common gay stereotypes and some don’t. The term “straight acting” is often…

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